The ultimate goal of forgiveness is Freedom.  Freedom from feeling wronged by someone, someone who really has no place in your life other than what you are giving them by not forgiving them and allowing yourself to move on.  Whatever this person did to you really has nothing to do with you.  It's all about their low self esteem and need to be in control which will never change unless they realize they have a problem.  You should not punish yourself because of some else's inability to treat others with respect.

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I have found that we spend a lot of time trying to figure out why they did what they did, truth be known they can't tell you why so stop giving them space in your heart and mind allowing them to take up space that they aren't worthy of. 

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IT IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO CARRY AROUND THE BURDEN AND HURT OF WHAT SOMEONE DID TO YOU.  LET IT GO AND SET YOUSELF FREE TO WELCOME THE BLESSING YOU ARE BLOCKING BY NOT FORGIVING..